Gift Ideas, Product Recommendations, and Random Thoughts Tagged "Random Thoughts"

Why the Kentucky Five Star is Important to Training Level Riders

Here's why I think it's well worth a financial contribution even if you can only spare the cost of one riding lesson:

As an amateur, my primary concerns are safety and fun. That means having a highly qualified instructor (yes...even after 40 years of riding) is a very high priority for me--and so many of you. I know you. I see you. We want to enjoy our horses but the quality of instruction received from a riding teacher--your trainer depends on what exposure they are able to maintain at the highest levels of this sport.

February 11, 2021
3 min read

I asked for help!

I have always defined the concept of self-sabotage as something people do because subconsciously, they don’t want to succeed. I see now that I can desire success and still get in my own way. Not asking for help is a BIG one for me. I even wrote a blog post about it ten years ago.

January 20, 2021
2 min read

Overwhelm, Perfection and Self Sabotage

Today I feel overwhelmed. I woke up that way. Work, the child, horses, life. I don’t think today is any different than yesterday, except that I have a show jump lesson today at 2:45. Show jumping lessons give me anxiety and I start to walk down the path of self-sabotage.

January 15, 2021
2 min read

Judgement

I was almost cleaned up when Junior finally got back to the barn after a less than perfect lesson. I reminded her that we came here to learn and that horses is hard. She said, “I don’t need to be perfect, I just don’t want to suck.”